Showing posts with label Relationship. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Relationship. Show all posts
6 Habits That Make A Lady/Guy Discourage in Dating You
Finding love is hard.
Sometimes when you’ve been single for a long time, you begin to question yourself.
Finding isn’t easy. But the love search is easily complicated by some habits you have.
“And the worst part, you don’t even know you’re sabotaging yourself.”
Many longtime single people who have been searching for love usually have habits that reduce their chances.
Some of your habits could be stopping you from moving past the first few dates. Here are some of the major things that make you undateable:
1. You’ve got a big Ego
We know these kinds of people who think and act like everyone is beneath them. Like they’re better than everyone else. Your big ego could be getting in your way of finding love. If you think you’re better than everyone, how are you going to settle with one person?
2. Working too much
Hard work is good. Successful people are hard and smart workers. But how will you have time to date when you work a 12 hour day?
3. Being too clingy
You know those guys/ladies that call your phone 5 times a day after knowing you for a few days. If you’re one of those people, you’re clingy. And this comes off as being desperate. It could be chasing away your love interests.
4. Unrealistic standards
Unrealistic standards can be hurting your chances of finding love. Example, a girl who wants an RMD-looking kind of guy will wait for a very long time. Or a guy who wants a girl who looks like Kim K and behaves like mother Theresa might find himself growing “mettu” as we say in Naija. Set realistic standards and you will find love sooner.
5. Lying too much
Some people’s names need to be changed to Linus or maybe pinocchio. This is because they lie about every little thing. Nobody likes being lied to. If you’re a Nigerian Pinocchio (male and female), please change your ways
to find a partner.
6. Being too argumentative
Nigerians love to argue. If you’re on a date and your partner thinks A is better than B.
And you think B is better than A. There is no need to talk them to death till they agree with you. Nobody likes an argumentative
partner. Respect people’s rights to their opinions even if it’s different from yours.
Love
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Relationship
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Romatic
24 Promises All Men Should Be Able To Make To Their Girlfriend/Wife, No 23. Will amaze you.
1. I promise that when we binge watch shows on Netflix, I won’t skip ahead.
2. Okay, I might skip ahead, but I’ll never spoil anything for you and I’ll act surprised at the good parts.
3. I promise to keep my phone screen face up and without a password, because I don’t have anything to hide.
4. I promise to show you off, whether it means bringing you around my friends & co-workers, or posting our pictures on Instagram.
5. I promise to continue doing the things I did to win your heart, well after you’re mine.
6. I promise I will never treat you like a cliche. I will never expect you to do anything just because you’re a “woman.” Those tropes are bullshit anyway.
7. I promise that every time we fight, I’ll order us make-up pizza. 8. I promise I will remember your coffee order and, when you drink too much whiskey the night before, I’ll bring you your coffee bedside… even ifI’m hungover, too .
9. I promise we won’t fall into tired old routines and that I will look for new and interesting ways to keep our relationship fun.
10. I promise I will fight for you and when I say I’m committed, you won’t have to worry about whether or not I mean it. I will make it important to earn and keep your trust.
11. Marilyn Monroe was wrong but I promise I won’t stop caring about you when you’re at your worst and I’ll always work to bring out your best. Everybody needs to be cared for AND pushed.
12. I will call when I say I’m going to call. I will ask you to let me know that you’ve gotten home safe. I will reply to your texts cause I’d want you to reply to mine. My phone game is strong.
13. I promise to let the past be the past. I will not ask about your ex and I will not talk about mine unless you ask.
14. I promise that even when you fall out with your friends I will not bad-mouth them, because we both know it’s probably temporary. They were here before me. Respect.
15. I promise to spend enough time downtown if you know what I mean…
16. I promise to treat our relationship like it’s our relationship, that it’s private, that it’s between you and I. I won’t let the world spoil it or dictate it. I’ll understand that it’s you and I together.
17. I promise not to judge you for how long you take to say “stop” when I’m pouring your glass of wine.
18. I promise I will order you a side of fries, not because I wouldn’t want to share my fries with you, but because I know you, girl, and those fries are what we came to this restaurant for.
19. I promise I will not just tolerate your family, but I will make an effort to know your parents, your siblings, your cousins, because anyone that is important to you has to be amazing and I want to know them, too.
20. Fried chicken. I will make it and you will eat and love it. Also vodka tonics because my vodka tonic game is strong. Nearly as strong as my phone game.
21. I promise I will do everything I can to not be a “typical guy.” I’m as bored with those stereotypes as you are.
22. I promise if you’re sick, I will go to that Italian restaurant you like and pick up some soup for you and I won’t even be annoyed when you tell me you feel awful a hundred times a day. I know you feel awful, I’ve been sick, too.
23. I promise to give my life for your safety sake. (but not all men can do this)
24. I promise to like your Instagram photo when it’s at nine, and it looks all messy because you see NINE different usernames, and a tenth will make it say, simply, — because I know these little things matter.
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